Bismillah
Salam

Dear: Qalandriya
Weclome back home

Young Umar ( I am 57 Ok Smile)

This Siddiqua path is based on (adab and companionship of shaykhs) not
on just permission written or verbal:

Therefre, Next time a brother or sister come to Allah asking
forgiveness, do not rub it, just reply like Sayyedina Joseph: alihi as
salaam:

http://www.allah.com/cgi-bin/mt.cgi?lang=en&cfile=KoranInSubjects

[12.92] He replied, 'Let no reproach be on you this day. Allah will
forgive you He is the Most Merciful of the merciful.
[12.93] Go, take this shirt of mine and cast it over my father's face,
he will recover his sight. Then return to me with all your family.'
[12.94] As the caravan departed, their father said, 'I smell the scent
of Joseph, unless you think I am foolish.'
[12.95] 'By Allah, 'they said, 'this is but your old illusion.'
[12.96] And when the bearer of glad tidings arrived, he laid Joseph's
shirt over him, and he saw once again. He said, 'Did I not tell you
that I know from Allah what you do not know?'
[12.97] His sons said, 'Father, ask forgiveness for our sins. We have
indeed been sinners.'
[12.98] He said, 'I shall ask my Lord to forgive you. He is Forgiving,
the Most Merciful.'
[12.99] And when they entered before Joseph, he took his father and
mother into his arms and said, 'Welcome to Egypt, safe, if Allah wills!'
[12.100] He lifted his parents to the throne, and (the others) bowed
before him. Joseph said to his father, 'This is the meaning of my
vision of long ago, my Lord has verified it. He has been gracious to
me. He brought me out of prison and brought you out of the desert
after satan had corrupted (the relationship) between me and my
brothers. My Lord is Gentle to whom He will. He alone is the Knower,
the Wise.
[12.101] Lord, You have given me the kingdom and taught me to
interpret visions. Originator of the heavens and the earth, my
Guardian in this world and in the Everlasting Life. Let me die in
submission (as a Muslim) and let me join the righteous.'

My dua and salam
Ahmad Darwish