--- In BAD_MD@..., "Azlan Adnan" <azlan088@g...> wrote:
>he is like a fifteen year old. no responsibilties even tho he is
39. runs away from all responsibilities and cant keep a job. he has
no friends because he lies to look big and there fore looks arrogant.

i wish i could help him since i was 15 then got to know him again
recently but he wont go to docs i know.

> Dear aliwalliwooo
>
> Bipolars who are undiagnosed and never heard of bipolar disorder,
> think their behavior is "normal," at least for them. They may
realise
> they are "a little different" from others but don't see it in
terms of
> having a disorder or needing professional help to cope with the
extra
> strains on life that the disorder demands on them.
>
> Your first step upon your bf making contact with you is to get him
to
> a competent medical practitioner to have him properly assessed. I
> know, this is easier said than done but once he is on meds, his
moods
> will change for the better and he will thank you for it and would
only
> wish he found out about it earlier.
>
> If you don't take this step, you must be prepared for the agony,
pain
> and frustration that will test the most patient of us.
>
> Perhaps you can make it a deal-breaker. Be strong and give him an
> ultmatum if he wants you back ~ get assessed or its over between
you
> both.
>
> I know it sounds harsh but the alternative will be the waste of two
> lives, not one.
>
> Do read the LINKS and the FILES at the Yahoo! Group ~ they will
inform
> you about bipolar and prepare you for the supportive role you need
to
> play.
>
>
> On 4/10/06, aliwalliwooo <aliwalliwooo@y...> wrote:
> > --- In BAD_MD@..., "Azlan Adnan" <azlan088@g...>
wrote:
> > >i guess what i am looking for is confirmation that he has
bipolar. he
> > doesnt know he has any problems.
> >
> > it wasnt until i researched manic depression on the net i
thought "he
> > has that".
> >
> > the behaviour is just so weird.
> >
> > do they know what they are doing is wrong and do they feel
guilty or
> > do they think it is normal?
> >
> >
> > > do you want to continue in a rleationship like this?
> > >
> > > is it worth the uncertainty and quarrels?
> > >
> > > what outcome are you expecting?
> > >
> > > if you know what you want, it is easier to head in that
direction.
> > >
> > > On 4/10/06, aliwalliwooo <aliwalliwooo@y...> wrote:
> > > > this is an add on to the previous post. it feels like mental
> > torture
> > > > and you always get the feeling he is seeing other girls even
tho he
> > > > puts the blame onto me if i question it.
> > > >
>