--- In BAD_MD@..., "Sharon Lee Siew Yuen"
<sharon.lee@m...> wrote:
>hi sharon

yes b4 he moved down south i dated mine long distance. he text me
and phoned evryday they he used to just turn on his phone once a day
and then he said please wait for him and turned off his phone for
ages and then just emailed, then nothing, then change of phone
numbers. it was very strange. all the feelings u say.......

then he text me out of the blue and came down to live here. he was
okay ish apart from manic behavior and odd compulsive lying and
spending. he was so caring and charming with the odd depressive bout
if his work wasnt going well. he was very secretive and kept
changing phones and i thought he was seeing other women. he denied
all but made me feel like the guilty party.

then at christmas his phone was unplugged. he said his computer
wasnt working and it was and i plugged his phone in and dialled the
last number that rang. it was a girl from his previous work. she was
devastated to find out he had girlfriend. she said they were just
friends tho (but i think she was afraid as she was married). he
denied all made me feel bad for plugging his phone in. he then moved
and said fresh start.

from january he has got more and more depressed and withdrawn from
me. said he just wanted to be friends for a while. i got the
impression he was seeing another girl. but he denied all. he got the
sack and lost his tied home fell greatly into depression now he has
moved without telling me where he is and says please wait for him he
loves me so much. he wont see me and i think he may be living with
this girl (as a free bed) i have said if its over tell me dont keep
me hanging on and he just says he loves me so much and please wait.

its like they can completely mentally torture you but you never know
if its depression or other women??????

and the charm keeps you thinking things will be great agian once
they return.......
> hi aliwoo,
> im dating a bipolar( he said he is) and we are having a distance
> relationship... i know how u feel the insecurity, uncertainty...
but he
> does show u that he loves u..
> my bf is similar... sometimes he would juz stay away and make u
worry
> for days... i think that is when he is depressed.. he doesnt
tell me
> stuff either...
> recently he lost his job coz he got bursitis and he dissapeared
for a
> month... i got worried because he is in the usa and im in
malaysia....
> all we can do is just wiat and see.. when he is ok he will come
back...
> mine does... but i guess perhaps some guys have a way of
dealing with
> things.. perhaps its nto even bipolar ---> my bf said he has but
he has
> never been officially diagnosed... he dont like to go to the
doctor...
> but he ahs similr attitude.. to ur bf..
>
>
>
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> --- In BAD_MD@..., "Azlan Adnan" <azlan088@g...>
wrote:
> >>i guess what i am looking for is confirmation that he has
bipolar. he
> > doesnt know he has any problems.
> >
> > it wasnt until i researched manic depression on the net i
thought "he
> > has that".
> >
> > the behaviour is just so weird.
> >
> > do they know what they are doing is wrong and do they feel
guilty or
> > do they think it is normal?
> >
> >
> >> do you want to continue in a rleationship like this?
> >>
> >> is it worth the uncertainty and quarrels?
> >>
> >> what outcome are you expecting?
> >>
> >> if you know what you want, it is easier to head in that
direction.
> >>
> >> On 4/10/06, aliwalliwooo <aliwalliwooo@y...> wrote:
> >> > this is an add on to the previous post. it feels like mental
> > torture
> >> > and you always get the feeling he is seeing other girls even
tho he
> >> > puts the blame onto me if i question it.
> >> >
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