Hi tim
you are Not a looser
you seam to have a lot of the writing paturns and
spelling paturns that would indecate dislexiea and
posible aspergers syndrome.

many aspergers people have fixations on subjects but
not nesaserily numbers
my brother has dispraxiea dislexiea and aspergers

you may also wish to look into discalclea ( not spelt
corectly )this is an inability or a disability with
maths.

shyness is a nateral thing with a lot of aspergers you
would just never know it as they work hard at over
coming it when you start to stutter and get all
nervous slow down when you speak take the dog out
when you go out then you will have a nateral subject
for discusion.

remember to have a shower or bath at least every once
in a wile ( this is a big thing for aspergers people )

and try to get some one to spell cheak your work and
read it for sence as a lot of us have to do this it
may be the right spelling but the wrong word like bred
and bread one means the type of dog the other is a
type of food.

hope this is of some use all the best

a-R
--- tim19992 <tim19992@...> wrote:


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I've just joined and i'd like to introduce myself. I'm
23 and i have
Asperger's syndrome, well i'm shure i have. I'm not
diagnosed
actually, but theres no doubt from my point of view,
tha I have one.
Im one of those kids who grew up just not knowing
whats wrong with
them. i was different from other all the time. But
then I just thought
tham i am simply dumb person, who doesn't know how to
talk with
people. But about a year ago i eventualy understood
that I'm an aspie.
I went to psychologist to get confirmation and he
said, that I'm most
likely to have it, but actaly getting diagnosis would
be difficult
couse I don't actaly fit the descripsion. But
personaly I think thats
becouse those criterias ar written for chindren. For
example hand
clappind and stuff.
But I still have some doubts, so I would like to ask
you some
questions about aspergers:
First do you really can't understand body languadge
and face
expresions? Don't take it personally, but this thing
sound a bit
silly. I mean, I've read that if they show pictures to
small children
and they can't understand some emotions. But I can't
understand how an
adult person can't do it. I have no problems in this
area, so that is
one of the problems getting official diognosis.
And all this thing sound a bit stupid. Basicly
scientist only car
about children and all the books and articles are
about children.
What, all those autistic children don't grow up, don't
become adults?
They propably disappear? What if human grows up and
no-one really
bothers is he autistic or not - they simply ignore
him. Thats what my
life was. No-one cared why I was so shy and withdrawn,
and why i was
so strange that nobady understood what i was saying or
wanted to say.
Second thing is all that obsession for numbers, dates
and classifying
everything. Whats that about? Do all aspies have that.
i personaly
don't. Actually I hate numbers, i hardly can remember
my phone number,
so if someone asks me for it, i have to look it up. I
am hopeless at
math and stuff and I have never in my life cared of
categories of
things or spiecies of animals. I just love my dog and
i really don't
give a shit about what sort of bread he is.
but don't think that I differ from you. I don't like
people much.
Comunicating with them is a torture. I always say
stuff that i
should't and others simply wonder how stupid I am. I
find situations
when people expect me to say or do something, but I
don't know what
they want from me. Plus I have dispraxia, I stick to
routines, like
being alone and not talking with people. I'm also
extremely shy. That
is also a difference from typical aspie, becouse i've
read that people
with Asperger's syndrome don't actually fear people
even in situations
where thay should. Peronaly I have problems in social
situations. I
feal anxiety, and that is what acording to scientist
isn't typical.

So basicly I want someone to write me am I really an
aspie, or I am
just siplme looser:)




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