Hi

I read your message sounds to me you have aspurger's like me.
I know what you are going though my friend. I can honestly tell you
this most people who do not believe in Christ do not accept people
like you and me I was never accept in school or when I left.
It is tough to get employnment for people like us.
First of all I would not recommend you see a psychologist.
They really don't care in helping you only God really cares.
They don't really help. Three Years ago I have accept Jesus as my
savior and he has given me great hope I belong to a singles group at
a church at Calvary Chapel and they treat me like I am normal and
equal. I believe all autistic people belong to Christ he loves all of
us and by believing and turning to him he can give us close to normal
lives. You may never be accept by the world but you will always be
accepted by God because he loves all of us and he loves you very
much. The World is very cruel I know but there is hope for all of us
I don't know if you believe in christ or not if you don't believe me
it's worth it and has given me great peace. I have been to London
great city I live in the United States. I know a good church in
London called Calvary Chapel which is in Westminster. It meets in
Westminster City School on Sunday services are 9:00am,11:00am and
6:00pm it's located on place street near victoria street.
There phone number is 020 7828 5520. God has given us free will and
he has great love for you God is is a loving and compassionate God
and wants to help you. 1 John 4:16,19 and we know the that God has
for us and we trust that love. God is love. Those who live in love
live in God and God lives in them.We love because God first loved us.
Eshesians 3:17-19: I pray that christ will live in your hearts by
faith and that your life will be strong in love and be built on
love.and i pray you and all God's holy people will have the power to
understand the greatness of christ's love how wide and how long and
how high and how deep that love is. Christ's love is greater than
anyone can ever know but I pray that you will be able to know that
love. then you can be filled with fullness of God. Jeremiah 31:3
and from far away the lord appeared to his people and said I love you
people with a love that will last forever. that is why i have
continued showing you kindness. I will pray for you and I know how
hard it is to deal with autism but only God can really help you and
he will if you let him he cares about you and wants to help you.
You are special to him and he has great love for you. I hope this
helped you and one day when you join God in heaven you will have
wonderful life with him in heaven forever by knowing his son Jesus.
I ill pray for you my friend and best of luck.

In Christ
David

--- In aspiesdugout@..., "gnrboo" <gaynorbarrett@h...>
wrote:
> Hello, I hope it is OK for me to be on this site because I don't
have
> any diagnosis (except depression but that is not relevant I know)
but
> I am supposed to go to a psychologist at beginning february. I
have
> done this test which you linked to and got 41 but as you say it is
> not accurately organised (and I also think they have used a
standard
> answer format which the answers are sometimes not relevant to the
> questions).
> Can anyone tell me the following:
> If I did have asperger syndrome, would I not have had to go to a
> special school (which I didn't- school was not a problem for me
> except the other students who were violent and disruptive)?
> Is there something else you can have like asperger but without
> language problems? I always thought that asperger meant that if
you
> said 'whats up?' someone would look at the sky or whatever kind of
> literal interpretation- psychiatrist says that no, but I
have 'black
> and white' ideas (this is the only kind which makes sense to me
> because surely something either is or isn't???) and antisocial
(asked
> about antisocial personality disorder but he says that is something
> else which means violent and disruptive (seems lilke most people to
> me)). It seems to me that the problems which I have are not
serious
> enough to be aspergers because I did work with some children with
> autism and they were very much more unaware of other people than me
> so I don;t know if it is unfair for me to use this name for my
> problems although some of them, actually were more able than me and
> played tricks on me (e.g. DId you borrow Mrs X broomstick? Well, I
> went to look for the broomstick in case I got in trouble for
loosing
> it but it turned out they just meant to say the teacher was a
> witch... hahaha, am I stupid or what?)
> DOes anyone know of any employers who specifically like people with
> asperger syndrome or any cooperatives of asperger/autistic people
to
> work together? I have employment problems that I can't ever make
my
> bosses like me and so I get sacked...
> Does anyone know what kind of effect this will have on my life if
> they say either yes or no that I have it or not?
> Can you tell me, anyone here with asperger syndrome, are you the
same
> as me or not? I would like to know people who are the same as me
but
> I don't know if that would be anyone here, I don't have any amazing
> abilities like people with asperger are supposed to and I can find
my
> way about on foot (but not car), use shops etc but I just can't
work
> out how people want me to behave at each particular situation.
>
> Thankyou for your help in this matter.
> gnr