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How do you seperate the illness from the person? And do you?   Message List  
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Dear Members,
hello again. Another thing which puzzles me is, how do you
differenciate the illness from the person? And do you? And if you
don't, then how can you stay with someone who is so aggresive?
Personally, when my mother started having an aggresive episode, it was
so a part of her personality that there was no way I could seperate it
from who she was. That was just who she was. Please forgive me if I
seem a bit callous with my questions sometimes, I am just very angry
about having to deal with this illness for so many years, it stole my
childhood and I live in fear of her commiting suicide everyday, so I'm
pretty pissed off about it. I have a thousand questions about this
illness, so thankyou for any feedback. Best regards, and keep well.

Sandra




Sun Dec 28, 2008 9:21 am

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Dear Members, hello again. Another thing which puzzles me is, how do you differenciate the illness from the person? And do you? And if you don't, then how can...
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Hi Sandra I still haven't managed to differenciate illness from person. I've just spent the last two years being angry at finding myself in this situation. ...
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You cant diferentiate, its who they are. Have a "safe house". a place to escape to find your "me " time and Take it.my daughter has BPD as her mother i blamed...
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