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Re: [dysthymia] Re: Speaking Up

Hi Carol, yes well done for speaking up.  I do hope that nowadays people are more open and professional at work when being told of our types of problems.  I told my boss soon after my diagnosis and it does take some pressure off at work. Of course we still need to be professional in our jobs but at least our bosses know the context in which we are working.
 
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Ade

Ian Wilson <ianw4health@...> wrote:

Well Done Carol, it takes courage to speak up like that.

If you don't mind me asking what made you speak up? It is something I
fine hard to do.

It would be interesting to know whether your boss had heard of
Dysthymia before you mentioned it?

Take Care

Ian

--- In dysthymia@yahoogroups.co.uk, Bly Spirit <bly_spirit@...> wrote:
>
> Today I had my appraisal in work. It was my suggestion to have it
rather than my bosses, and I had only had one other before, 3 years ago.
>
> I put in the form about having a period of sick time I had off last
year (5 weeks when I finally admitted that I had depression and was
dysthymic - my first ever sickness longer than three days). during
the meeting, when I referred to it, my boss kept saying "well we can
get over that and move on and put it all in the past". And as normal,
I just nodded. But instead of letting him get away with it (like
always) I said that I had to say something, that it wasn't going to
just pass and that I would always have it (dysthymia), but my work was
now greatly improved and that my work had been lapse in the past
because of it. And low and behold - he went and wrote it up in the
appraisal form. Result!! He took on board that it wasn't just a one
off case of depression.
>
> I should have spoken up years ago - but at least they are starting
to listen now (with a push!).
>
> Did I mention that I work for an NHS Consultant! You'd think he'd
know better really wouldn't you.....
>
> Carol x
>
>
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Today I had my appraisal in work. It was my suggestion to have it rather than my bosses, and I had only had one other before, 3 years ago. I put in the form...
Bly Spirit
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Mar 2, 2007
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Well Done Carol, it takes courage to speak up like that. If you don't mind me asking what made you speak up? It is something I fine hard to do. It would be...
Ian Wilson
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Mar 3, 2007
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Hi Carol, yes well done for speaking up. I do hope that nowadays people are more open and professional at work when being told of our types of problems. I...
Adrian Williams
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Mar 3, 2007
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Ian I think I have decided/learnt that things will only ever change for me if I change them. And I want things to change. As difficult as I find it to tell...
Bly Spirit
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Mar 5, 2007
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Hi again Carol, I can only have praise for what you did there, as I said before I find it difficult in speaking up and I could add I have been trained to speak...
Ian Wilson
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Mar 5, 2007
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Hi Everyone, I think making an amalgamated list of what Dysthymia is about and giving it to friends and colleagues is a brilliant idea, especially as you can;t...
Adrian Williams
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Mar 6, 2007
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Hi Adrian It is interesting you mentioned Bipolar and trying to explain the difference. As you may be aware with Bipolar there is Type 1 (Mania & or deep...
Ian Wilson
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Mar 6, 2007
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Hi I just wondered if anyone would like to take Carol's and Adrian's idea about a list of what Dysthymia is about and put the idea in a leaflet that we can put...
Ian Wilson
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Mar 8, 2007
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One thing that I've found that helps, is to have a sheet of paper (around A4 size, which I cut and pasted from different websites) defining and explaining what...
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