I lost my Grandad last sunday. He died in Hospital, I was with him
as he slipped away into peace. He was 82 drank like a fish smoked
like a chimney and a grumpy sod too so dont think he did too bad
reaching 82.

It was the funaral on thusday I did the tribute only a small service
with about a dozen people. He was buried only a few feet away from
my husband.

It was strange though.....because Ive lost my husband which was very
painfull and hard to cope with this seemed an experience which was
void of the same amount of pain.

have any of you experienced this.....because we have had so much
pain, you are able to deal with emotional and painfull situations
that previously you would have been deeply effected by.

does that make sence to any one????