hi peter i know it is so hard i lost my partner last oct we were going to get
married second time round for us both sometime i think back on the early days
and wonder how i got to were i am now i can laugh again .it is sore hard the
first of everything i have the anniversary coming up but i do really believe the
first year is the worse bobby was only 46 so you can imagine when he got
diagnosed with cancer anyway i will talk to you anytime please keep thinking it
does get easier we never forget but we learn to move on lynn

p_n_1951 <p_n_1951@...> wrote: hello to all Members. I have just
joined this group. My name is
Peter, I live in Scotland and I am 55 years old. I was married for 23
years when I lost my dear Wife and Best friend to cancer, at the
begining of the year. Although I thought I could cope, (Typical male
I suppose), I have found it extremely difficult to come to terms
with. I know that I am not the first and will not be the last, but we
had planned so much.

I have been told, "that the first year is the worst", but I cant find
consolation in that.

There are so many questions, but no one knows the answers. Maybe one
day we will find them. Till that day comes thank you for letting me
join.

Peter.






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