I AM NEW HERE, I HAVE BEEN THRU ALOT THE PAST THREE MONTHS AS I LOST TWO
SISTER ONE ON NOV 4TH AND MY BEST FRIEND CELESTE I CALL MY SISTER AS I HAVE
KNOWN HER SINCE WE WERE 14 SHE DIED ON FEB 4TH. SO MY HEART IS BROKEN AND I HAVE
BEEN NOT TAKEN CARE OF MYSELF JUST LYING AROUND NAD CRYING ALOT. TWO DEATHS IN
THREE MONTHS IS MORE THNA I CAN BARE. MY FRIENDS HAVE NOT BEEN SUPPORTIVE
AND TELLING ME GET A GRIP LIFE GOES ON ADN ALL SORTS OF MEAN THINGS,O I FEEL
ALONE WITH MY GRIEF, I AM HOPING I CAN MAKE NEW FRIEDNS HERE AND SOEMONE WHO IS
GOIGN THRU THE SAME THING.
THIS IS ME
ANNETTE
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HI everyone just thought I post to see how everyone was and im aware
its that time of year everyone who has lost someone finds difficult.
Families are getting together and its hard when someone is missing lets
all burn a candle this weekend in memory of thoes we have lost.
pleas all post say how you are doing.
Hello elizabeth
you seem like a girl with a good sense of humour!!
Like your name Lillie the pink! Scaffold well I am a scouser!
I am going back to France, lived there for the last fifteen years have
to go back to sell the house! I need to Get back to the UK for my
sanity and because the family wants me to,followed a guy to the uk,
didnt last hence going back to my miss Haversham life
hope this makes some sort of sense, in the middle of packing
hope to speak to you soon not off line untill tue.
lorraine
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hello lorraine
i lost my husband 8 years ago when my children were very young i
still have times when its hard as do the kids.
talk any time
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Hi I lost my husband, suddenly six years ago.
I was pregnant at the time, my little boy is the image of his father
I have good days and not so good days!!This is a first for me writing
on the net!
My wife died last month of liver cancer so I'm still feeling pretty
raw.I'm sixty, live in Ireland by the Shannon, to where we retired
after working in Cornwall for most of our lives. I understand the
process of grieving and am currently going through the angry stage, I
want answers. So a question for the group. Some years ago my wife had
a masectomy of the right breast and the glands removed on that side
at Limerick hospital. Should she then have been offered chemotherapy?
Within a year she was put on yearly check ups? At which we had to
fight for proper scans? One of which they lost in the hospital so it
was just presumed it would have been clear?
Earlier this year she went to the specialist! with back pains and
darkening skin colouring. He said he'd arrange a scan some time in
the future! I lost patience, took her the next day to Ennis hospital
where she was admitted immediately. After a few days she was sent,in
great pain to Kilkenny hospital[140 miles away] to have a stent put
in.
They proceded to lose her between there and Dublin during the
next week. I learnt later this shuttling was due to them puncuring
her bowel trying to insert the stent.The stent, and all else they
tried failed, I had to fight to get my darling wife returned to a
local hospice.The rest is history, basically she died of starvation
unable to process food.
I apologise if this history is too graphic for you, you all
must have been through similar. Question? Do I accept fate, or seek
answers, pick at the raw wound? The questions I have asked to date
have, as expected, led to the closing of medical ranks.
Hi there having a chinese to celerbrate her birthday is a grat idea I
have a house party and a glass of whisky on my husbands birthday. Its
good to rember. Its 7.5 years since i lost my husband to cancer.
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> this is my first post, i lost my wife almost 2 years ago to cancer.
> Today (21st august) would have been her 55th birthday, so me, my son,
> daughter and all the family are going for a chinese to celebrate
> her birthday, We all still miss her very much there is still an
> emptiness about our lives.
>
this is my first post, i lost my wife almost 2 years ago to cancer.
Today (21st august) would have been her 55th birthday, so me, my son,
daughter and all the family are going for a chinese to celebrate
her birthday, We all still miss her very much there is still an
emptiness about our lives.
Hello,
Im not to sure but i was going thru yahoo and was looking up cancer when this
site came thru,so i am not sure if im in the right one! I am a mother of 4 and
my brother has recently being diagnosed again with cancer.He is only 30,recently
married and 2 young boys. If anyone is interested in sharing stories please
contact me, could do with a chat.
regards liz.
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oops seems my link is broken...try this
http://www.raceforlifesponsorme.org/aliarnell-smith
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> In august last year i was told i had 3b cervical cancer, i had chemo
> and radiotherapy and 2 internal zaps of radiotherapy, as of april
this
> year i was given the all clear,im tumour and cancer free, so Im doing
> the race for life for cancer research and wondered if anyone on here
> would like to sponsor me? i have a secure online sponsor page you can
> sponsor me thru, just visit
> http://www.raceforl ifesponsorme. org/aliarnell- smith
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> Many thanks in advance!
>
In august last year i was told i had 3b cervical cancer, i had chemo
and radiotherapy and 2 internal zaps of radiotherapy, as of april this
year i was given the all clear,im tumour and cancer free, so Im doing
the race for life for cancer research and wondered if anyone on here
would like to sponsor me? i have a secure online sponsor page you can
sponsor me thru, just visit
http://www.raceforl ifesponsorme. org/aliarnell- smith
Many thanks in advance!
Hi kym
I know how hard it is my husband died 7 year ago 2 days before my
bithday and 3 wk before my sons and 4 wk before his own. Birthdays and
aniversarys are hard whenever they. It must be hard for your son. I
know my son has said how can he be happy with anything in life and have
fun if his dad is dead.
Have a look at our web site www.elizabethtucker.co.uk follow the links
to roger tucker and then to how his illness effected us.
You dont say how old your son is?
Ive written a book for small children you can see that on the web page
too.
Also try the web page for winston wish they are a charity who help
children with bearvment.
For you sons birthday you could you could do something together to
remember your husband eg lighting canndel buring it for day, writing a
message on a ballon to your husband and letting it go. Have you done a
memery box? Bye a special box put all the things together that remind
you of your husband eg card, photos, moments days out jewerary etc Then
later in the day do something for your sons birthday let him know its
ok to celebrate.
because my childen were very young ive kept a trunk full of stuff for
them silly things like clothes, paper with handwritting, ties he wore
for work etc because there memeries of the person will be so linited it
will bring alive the person to them.
I hope that helps please free to e mail me
elizabeth.tucker@...
Remember whatever you are doing to cope is fine we all react
differently and get there in the end.
XXX
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> hi my name is kym
> i lost my husdand 28th jan last year to cancer on my son birthday , i
> have kept things together
> but now my son birthday in 2weeks how do i handle it
> my son wont talk about his dad he will walk out the room if someone
> starts talking. im at breaking point now i dont know what to do for
the
> best
> i know my husdand would want things to be as normal (but its not
> normal)
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> my husband was told he had cancer in late november had 1st lot of key-
> mo was very ill went for 2nd treatment pass 2weeks later
> unknow primrey
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hi my name is kym
i lost my husdand 28th jan last year to cancer on my son birthday , i
have kept things together
but now my son birthday in 2weeks how do i handle it
my son wont talk about his dad he will walk out the room if someone
starts talking. im at breaking point now i dont know what to do for the
best
i know my husdand would want things to be as normal (but its not
normal)
my husband was told he had cancer in late november had 1st lot of key-
mo was very ill went for 2nd treatment pass 2weeks later
unknow primrey
Sorry everyone i cant spell my own name very stressful week
www.elizabethtucker.co.uk/hannah.html
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> Hannah had her plexiform removed this week check it out at
> www.elizabettucker.co.uk/hannah.html follow the link to her surgery
>
Hi All
For Uk members, In Real People Magazine dated 2nd Nov out today 26th
Oct on page 47 you will find an article about Hannah and
Neurofibromatosis
Elizabeth
hi peter i know it is so hard i lost my partner last oct we were going to get
married second time round for us both sometime i think back on the early days
and wonder how i got to were i am now i can laugh again .it is sore hard the
first of everything i have the anniversary coming up but i do really believe the
first year is the worse bobby was only 46 so you can imagine when he got
diagnosed with cancer anyway i will talk to you anytime please keep thinking it
does get easier we never forget but we learn to move on lynn
p_n_1951 <p_n_1951@...> wrote: hello to all Members. I have just
joined this group. My name is
Peter, I live in Scotland and I am 55 years old. I was married for 23
years when I lost my dear Wife and Best friend to cancer, at the
begining of the year. Although I thought I could cope, (Typical male
I suppose), I have found it extremely difficult to come to terms
with. I know that I am not the first and will not be the last, but we
had planned so much.
I have been told, "that the first year is the worst", but I cant find
consolation in that.
There are so many questions, but no one knows the answers. Maybe one
day we will find them. Till that day comes thank you for letting me
join.
Peter.
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hello to all Members. I have just joined this group. My name is
Peter, I live in Scotland and I am 55 years old. I was married for 23
years when I lost my dear Wife and Best friend to cancer, at the
begining of the year. Although I thought I could cope, (Typical male
I suppose), I have found it extremely difficult to come to terms
with. I know that I am not the first and will not be the last, but we
had planned so much.
I have been told, "that the first year is the worst", but I cant find
consolation in that.
There are so many questions, but no one knows the answers. Maybe one
day we will find them. Till that day comes thank you for letting me
join.
Peter.
I lost my partner 4 months ago to cancer. I thought I would join just
to help me through this hard time. It would be good to hear some
advice from people who have experienced the same loss.
Lynn
Hello everyone:
I lost my Mother to cancer some years ago. Four years ago I was
diagnosed with Leukeamia.
I am an excellent listener. Do be my guest.
Take care
Francis
If anyone is interested I have published a book for small children
to help them understand about illness and death it costs 5.00 and
procceds go to my local Hospice and Neurofibrmatosis reacherch
e mail me if interested elizabeth.tucker@b...
http://uk.geocities.com/elizabeth.tucker@btinternet.com/
My husband died 5 years ago tomorrow. He had cancer and it was 4
years from diognosis to losing his battel. it is very hard, the
first year is the worst. coping with your feelings your kids feeling
and everybody else. my advice for any one going through this kind of
experiance is to take plenty of time for yourself, massage,
Atomatherapy, long baths, swimming, sitting in a sauna, cholate,
other people making you meals are just a few ideas it doesnt stop
the fact that you have to grieve put it does insure you come out the
otherside intact. It will change you as a person make you strong and
what trival things might have seemed important before are no longer.
it is possible to build a new life for yourself you never forget the
person you always remember you learn to cope with it and move on to
a new you.
Elizabethx
Hi Everyone I lost my husband 4 years ago to cancer, Ive just had a
book published for children under 5 to explain about ilness and
dieing. There was very little about when my children were having to
deal with trying to understand what was happening and as adults its
difficult to put it in to words so a book can be very helpfull. If
any one is interested in the book contact me.
Thanks
I lost my Grandad last sunday. He died in Hospital, I was with him
as he slipped away into peace. He was 82 drank like a fish smoked
like a chimney and a grumpy sod too so dont think he did too bad
reaching 82.
It was the funaral on thusday I did the tribute only a small service
with about a dozen people. He was buried only a few feet away from
my husband.
It was strange though.....because Ive lost my husband which was very
painfull and hard to cope with this seemed an experience which was
void of the same amount of pain.
have any of you experienced this.....because we have had so much
pain, you are able to deal with emotional and painfull situations
that previously you would have been deeply effected by.
does that make sence to any one????
Hi ya all
l'm a new member l lost my wife 6 months ago since then my step son
has gone to live with his dad not my choice! so its just me and my
son Alfie 3 now, not doing to bad keping things together. l think its
Alfie thats keept me going hope to talk to some of you soon.
Rich
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