Hi Mark,
I would like to come back to your first mail to our mailing list.
You have written that you have a girl friend and that her family totaly accept
you and your RP.
Please give me an idea how and when you have explained to her the RP ?

In my opinion it is even bad on the first evening to give the show away.
If you are waiting to long it would be also difficult to explain.

How are the experience of the other people on this mailing list.
When is the right moment to tell her/him the truth without losing the chances ?

Markus