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Re: [The Obsessively Clean Den] Re: Alone?


I understand what you mean Lee when you say you are concerned you are using the
board for reassurance.

I suppose I'm going against what is taught in CBT, but sometimes reassurance is
OK IMHO.

We're not super human and there are days in our lives when all the thoughts,
doubts and fear come back and try to get us again.

If you feel that coming here is maybe harming you, then maybe that's your Ocd? I
don't know just wondering. Coming to these boards shouldn't really cause any
discomfort :)

Posting our thoughts and concerns here won't just help us, but it will help
others who happen along here, who are going through hell and maybe help them
figure out what's wrong with them. Does that make sense?

One of the things about OCD is we used to think we were mad and the only ones
going through this. Scared to go to the doctor, because we thought he would lock
us up.

So I suppose the title of this thread is quite apt. "Alone"

Support is one of the best forms of CBT and we could make this group just like
that for ourselves and for those who will come here.

Most of us have had this for years and we have the wisdom knowledge and
experience to pass on to others in the same situation, don't you agree?

I'm not trying to take this group over and I hope it doesn't appear that way. I
was just concerned it didn't seem very active and even the owner of the board
doesn't appear to be around!

Shame I don't live very close to where the OCD meeting is as I would have liked
to try and get a long.

Take care all

Keith



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Tue Jul 23, 2002 8:58 pm

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This group board seems to be dead! Am I the only one who comes here now? Even the owner of this group doen't bother turning up! Why don't we really get this...
k k
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Jul 21, 2002
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k k <beefy100@...> wrote: Hi Keith I dont think the group is dead, just that OCD is a particularly hard illness to live with. There doesnt seem much...
Dawn Talbot
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Jul 21, 2002
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I agree with you that their isn't much understanding of OCD in this country. They seem to have a better idea in the USA! I'm sorry to hear about your partner...
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beefy100
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Jul 21, 2002
10:39 pm

... reasurance via the internet and telephone, and as I am having cbt, one of the aims is to stop such reasurrances for occuring and so as much as I would love...
leeesome
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Jul 22, 2002
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Hi All, I agree that finding out about OCD in the UK is so much hard work, when I was lookign for support last year I found it so difficult. Further to my last...
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I understand what you mean Lee when you say you are concerned you are using the board for reassurance. I suppose I'm going against what is taught in CBT, but...
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beefy100
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Jul 23, 2002
8:58 pm

Keith, sorry it's taken so long to reply. Update is this. I've now finished my CBT and an on 3 month checks. Not at all convinced I have got as far as I can go...
leeesome
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Aug 7, 2002
12:48 am

Now it's my turn to apologize for not replying sooner! Sorry! I hope that you don't feel too exposed now you've ended your CBT. But as you know there comes a...
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beefy100
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Aug 11, 2002
10:14 pm

Hi Keith & everyone! I must apologise, I have been neglecting this Group and Message Board for a while and feel really bad about it, SORRY! Truth is I think I...
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Aug 8, 2002
12:22 pm

Hi Sani! I saw the programme last night too & thought it was really good - brought a lump to my throat to see others getting 'stuck' in the same way as I...
marg432001uk
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Aug 8, 2002
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I too watched the programme, but was dissapointed, there wasn't any mention of pure ocd people. I hope in the next episode, they cover this too. I too felt for...
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Aug 11, 2002
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k k <beefy100@...> wrote: I hope they mention intrusive thought OCD as this is the most treatment resistant and the most difficult for others to deal...
Dawn Talbot
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Aug 12, 2002
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Yes the reassurance thing can be a real burden for a none OCD partner. IT's because of the nasty obsession flying around, that it causes the persons pride and...
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beefy100
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Aug 12, 2002
10:32 pm

Dawn, I really do wish you all the best and although I don't know your circumstances, so please forgive me if I speak out of turn, your fella really isn't...
leeesome
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Aug 12, 2002
11:52 pm

I'll reply here as it's in topic. You know I felt so sorry for that woman, out of all the people shown on the prog, my heart went out to her the most. To see...
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beefy100
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Aug 14, 2002
1:39 am

Hi Emily :0) I agree it helps to know you are not alone with this weird illness!! Lol. I thought it was a good programme and they all got off to a great start,...
Sani
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Aug 3, 2005
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Hi, Just wanted to make sure you all know, there is an OCD Programme tonight on Channel 4! hugs Sani...
Sandra
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Aug 1, 2005
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Hi Sani, Thanks for the info-I watched it. I really felt especially for the lady who had aversions to glitter/touching people. Watching programmes like that...
Emily
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Aug 1, 2005
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Hi Sanni! It wasn't my intention to make you feel bad, I'm sorry if I hurt you! I should realise that other people may be very busy. In future I will try to...
beefy100
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Aug 11, 2002
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beefy100 <beefy100@...> wrote: I think it is interesting that some people can work with OCD and others cannt. My partners whole day is spent either...
Dawn Talbot
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Aug 12, 2002
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Beefy. As you gave me a little insight into your troubles I thought it only fair to give you a little insight into mine. I know you watched the program on...
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